Join Valerie and fellow therapist Geoff Steuer as they riff about all things enabling. Why do we enable harmful behaviors in our loved ones? How does this happen? How can we know that we are enabling? How does the enabler feel? And most importantly, how do we stop enabling and heal our relationships from this dynamic?
Tera’s final efforts in saving the marriage and her concluding thoughts many months following their divorce. Her feelings of peace that have come and fortified her in their transition.
In this episode Valerie and Tera explore her many attempts to become accountable for her own part of their marital struggles. Tera’s battle to discern what was best for their children in this difficult situation.