Divinity Meets Humanity-Connecting with our True Selves as Key to our Spiritual Healing

Embracing the True Self

In a recent episode of Latter Day Struggles, I had a meaningful conversation with Nathan about finding our true selves within the framework of our faith. Many of us unconsciously adopt false identities shaped by our insecurities and the external pressures of our spiritual communities. In doing so, we try to appear devout or meet expectations that may not align with our authentic beliefs and desires. Our dialogue emphasized the importance of shedding these false identities to connect with our deeper selves.

The Struggle of Appearances

False personas often emerge as we strive to appear sufficiently devout, embodying a standard that doesn’t reflect who we truly are. These personas can prevent us from developing a meaningful relationship with the divine, leaving us stuck in a pursuit of “enoughness” that doesn’t hold real spiritual value. This quest for approval and validation can limit our spiritual growth and our ability to build genuine relationships within our communities.

Grounding Ourselves in Spiritual Teachings

In our conversation, we drew from Jesus’ teachings and the insights of modern spiritual mentors like Richard Rohr to encourage moving past imposed identities. By letting go of these layers, we free ourselves from labels and societal expectations that limit us on our faith journey. This process enables us to build a faith that allows us to discover and nourish our authentic selves.

Challenging Dogma and Societal Pressures

Nathan and I contemplated a faith that not only permits but also nurtures genuine self-discovery. We challenged the community to let go of artificial identities shaped by religious dogma and societal pressures, moving beyond externally imposed expectations. We emphasized the importance of integrating both the light and shadow aspects of ourselves to fully connect with the divine core of our being.

Connecting with Our Inner Divine

By embracing all parts of ourselves, we can cultivate a more genuine connection with the divine. This practice of self-integration allows us to navigate faith in a way that aligns with our values and desires, leading to deeper spiritual fulfillment. Together, we explored how the journey toward authentic selfhood can transform not just our faith but our entire lives, empowering us to live in alignment with the divine essence that resides within us all.

A Deep Dive into Theological Perspectives on Divinity and Humanity

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints teaches that each of us has a divine identity and unlimited potential. Grounded in the belief that we existed before this life and can become like God, this theology emphasizes that we all carry a divine spark, a celestial core that determines our worth and shapes our destiny.

Embracing the Journey

Recognizing this truth doesn’t mean we should ignore our human side. Instead, it’s important to understand that our earthly journey, with its inherent challenges and joys, is crucial for growth and self-discovery. Each experience we have helps us better understand our strengths and areas of improvement, which can shape our spiritual journey.

Weaving Together Humanity and Divinity

Nathan’s insights have helped me understand that integrating our divinity and humanity is essential to finding our true selves. By accepting and weaving together both aspects, we can live in harmony and develop an authentic connection with our spiritual identity. This balance allows us to navigate life while recognizing that each challenge and achievement contributes to our growth.

Navigating the Path of Authentic Faith

This understanding reminds us that our spiritual path involves merging these truths, avoiding false divisions, and finding unity between faith and life. When we combine the spiritual and earthly elements in a genuine and transformative way, our faith becomes a powerful source of guidance and strength. Ultimately, we can create a life that aligns with our core beliefs while recognizing the value of our journey toward divine potential.

The Complex Relationship Between Personal Evolution and Institutional Expectations

Nathan and I explored a theme that resonates with many of us on our spiritual journeys: the challenge of balancing personal growth with the expectations of religious institutions. This discussion revealed how our faith within The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints can be both a solid foundation and a source of challenges on the path to spiritual growth.

Finding Balance in Faith

I shared my own experiences, describing the delicate balance required to stay true to myself while participating fully in the Church’s community and teachings. It’s a challenge many face: remaining authentic while navigating the richness of the community’s traditions.

Embracing Tension and Growth

Nathan contributed insights into how this tension can create a more meaningful but sometimes difficult journey. Our evolving beliefs are constantly interacting with longstanding Church traditions, creating both growth and friction. Understanding this interplay allows us to see the bigger picture of how faith is enriched through diverse experiences.

The Internal Struggle

We both acknowledged the internal struggle that arises when grappling with our personal truths while staying in harmony with the communal beliefs that connect us to others. This tension is common for anyone seeking to honor both personal integrity and communal values.

Walking the Tightrope of Personal and Shared Beliefs

This episode offered an intimate look at the tightrope walked by individuals striving to maintain personal integrity while remaining respectful and connected to their faith traditions. Ultimately, finding this balance helps us honor our spiritual path, embracing the Church community while growing in a way that reflects our authentic selves.

Redefining our Ideas about God: Crucial to Healing an LDS Faith Crisis

The Vision of Mother Julian and the Compassionate Nature of God

Mother Julian of Norwich’s vision brought a refreshing perspective to Christianity by portraying God as compassionate and nurturing rather than punitive and distant. During the 14th century, her divine revelations conveyed that God deeply cares for each individual, especially in their moments of struggle and important choices. This understanding was significant in an era often marked by fear and uncertainty.

God’s Presence in Human Experience

Mother Julian’s vision suggests that God’s loving presence is woven into every part of the human experience, rather than being separate from it. Her writings offer a sense of comfort and closeness, helping people understand that God is always near. This contrasts with the stern image of God as a distant judge and instead provides a divine caregiver who embraces humanity with limitless understanding and compassion.

Endless Compassion and Understanding

Despite life’s complexities and our personal flaws, Mother Julian’s view of God emphasizes endless compassion. Her revelations remind us that God’s nature is less about fear and condemnation and more about guiding people kindly and encouraging them to grow. This gentle approach inspires individuals to see themselves through a lens of love and patience.

Trusting in Cosmic Love

Mother Julian’s theology invites people to develop a trusting relationship with God, rooted in nurturing support and cosmic love. By offering reassurance in the face of hardship, she inspires individuals to embrace faith that encourages spiritual growth and recognizes that every soul deserves kind guidance. Her writings continue to inspire us to look beyond fear and condemnation and find strength in love and divine care.

Self-Discovery and the Personal Journey of Faith

Self-discovery and personal faith are closely connected processes that help shape our spiritual identity. As we navigate life’s complexities and consider questions about purpose and meaning, we seek to understand both the divine and our place within a larger spiritual context. This journey is often prompted by the challenges and transitions we face daily, driving us to reflect on our beliefs and values.

Unique Journeys and Transformation

Each person’s spiritual journey is unique, marked by moments of doubt, insight, and transformation. No two paths are alike, and the experiences that shape our beliefs can vary widely. Sometimes, we have to dig beneath layers of tradition and doctrine to find a core understanding that resonates with our deepest convictions. This search often leads to periods of change and growth that bring clarity and deeper self-awareness.

Building a Personal Relationship with the Sacred

Through this exploration, we develop a personalized relationship with the sacred that influences our values, guides our actions, and provides comfort in times of uncertainty. This relationship is not something static but is continuously refined by new insights and experiences. Building this connection requires introspection and openness, allowing us to cultivate a form of faith that feels uniquely genuine.

Weaving a Tapestry of Experiences

The journey of faith is like a tapestry woven from our experiences and reflections. Each thread tells a story of how we struggled, grew, and gained new understanding. This tapestry reveals how our personal journey connects with something greater, helping us realize that the divine is not distant but as near as our own heartbeat. Understanding this brings peace and fulfillment, offering a strong foundation that grounds us in moments of doubt.

Atonement Theology and the Image of God

This topic often leads us to confront the traditional idea of a wrathful God who demands appeasement, trapping us in a faith based on fear. This perspective can hold our spiritual journey captive, discouraging growth and curiosity. The notion of a punitive deity fosters a narrative that focuses more on punishment than on transformation.

Exploring Punitive vs. Nurturing Narratives

Through reflection, we’ve considered how a punitive portrayal of God creates a narrative of atonement that’s harsh and discouraging, fostering fear instead of love and discovery. This mindset emphasizes chastisement, making spiritual exploration feel like a burden rather than a journey of growth. However, when we view God through the lens of unconditional love, atonement becomes an invitation to transformation, not punishment.

The Perspective of Unconditional Love

Together with Nathan, we’ve explored how seeing God as unconditionally loving shifts the idea of atonement from a demand to a loving gesture that encourages change and self-betterment. In this view, divine love invites us to transform our lives in meaningful ways. Rather than living in fear of punishment, we’re motivated by the compassion and encouragement that divine love provides.

Drawing Inspiration from Contemporary Thinkers

We draw inspiration from modern thinkers like Richard Rohr and Fiona Givens, whose insightful writings help us see a more benevolent and nurturing relationship with the divine. They encourage us to shift our thinking toward a compassionate God who seeks to guide us rather than condemn us.

Moving Toward Radical Love

Reimagining atonement in this light can profoundly change our spiritual consciousness and lead us toward a deeper and more liberating relationship with a loving God. Join us as we explore these complex but vital themes, seeking to move beyond fear-based faith and instead cultivate a spiritual life rooted in the light of radical, divine love.

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A Story of Humanity, Reconciliation, and Growing Spiritual Empowerment

Don’t you love a real story? When a person is willing to be vulnerable and tell a deeply moving story, often one of struggle, it moves us as humans. I am grateful for my friend Dan who was willing to visit with me on the podcast and tell his story–which in one way or another is all of our stories.

The Transformational Journey of Dan Wotherspoon: From Rebellion to Mission Life and Beyond

Dan Wotherspoon’s journey is one shaped by significant challenges, from youthful rebellion and personal turmoil to a life filled with purpose and spiritual understanding. His early years presented many internal struggles as he grappled with the more difficult aspects of life, creating a crucible that shaped his resilient spirit.

Commitment and Discovery

Driven by a deep inner conviction, Dan decided to embark on a missionary journey. During this time, he uncovered profound truths about love and human connection, lessons that would influence his future mentoring and community work. He developed a more comprehensive understanding of divine love and its impact on personal relationships.

Growth and Support

Throughout his journey, Dan’s commitment to personal growth, alongside the unwavering support of family and community, helped him transform his challenges into opportunities. His story is a testament to the power of transformation, transcending traditional spirituality and reaching into the realms of individual faith development.

Love and Connection: The Most Real Things in the Universe


The idea that love and connection are the most fundamental aspects of the universe suggests that they transcend the physical world, forming the very essence of our existence. They underpin human experience, shaping our relationships and interactions.

The Transformative Nature of Love

Love, a universal and profound emotion, fosters deep bonds that significantly impact our lives. It’s more than just an emotion; it’s a powerful force that unites individuals, promoting unity, empathy, and understanding.

Connection and Community

Similarly, connection acts as a thread weaving individuals into the fabric of community and society. Together, love and connection are the core of the human spirit, grounding us and providing meaning that material possessions and achievements cannot offer.

Prioritizing Relationships

This concept encourages prioritizing relationships and recognizing the intrinsic value of building meaningful bonds with others, ultimately leading to richer, more fulfilling lives.

Constructing an Authentic Spiritual Narrative: The Balance Between Institutional Religions and Personal Belief Systems

Balancing Institutional Religions and Personal Beliefs

The Role of Institutional Religions

Institutional religions offer a shared community, structured practices, and a unified set of beliefs. They provide guidance and a sense of belonging to their followers.

The Nature of Personal Belief Systems

Personal belief systems, on the other hand, are uniquely individual, shaped by one’s experiences, insights, and spiritual encounters.

Finding the Balance

Balancing these two worlds involves blending the communal and traditional aspects of institutional religion with the deeply personal search for truth. This harmony lets individuals draw from collective wisdom while honoring their personal spiritual journeys.

Creating a Resonant Faith

In this balance, individuals can build a faith that resonates with their convictions by integrating the traditional framework with the eclectic understanding that emerges through life’s journey.

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Embracing the Sacred in the Profane, Social Justice Advocacy, & Shadow Healing

Exploring Christianity, Social Justice, and Politics

Unpacking the Relationship

In this discussion, we will explore the intricate relationship between Christianity, social justice, and politics. Our aim is to provide thought-provoking insights into how one’s spiritual journey can intersect with a call to social action.

Jana’s Personal Journey

Jana will share how her exposure to different perspectives, including teachings from the Living School and historical church influences, will reshape her understanding of faith within these contexts. She will describe a transformative realization about Jesus’ ministry, emphasizing His focus on social justice and connection with marginalized communities. This challenges the Western Christian view of Jesus as solely a moral enforcer.

Redefining Beliefs and Political Engagement

Jana’s insights will highlight how religious beliefs can transcend political divisions and actively shape them. She will encourage Latter-day Saints to:

  • Engage with Social Advocacy: Recognize the potential to influence societal change through compassionate action.
  • Deconstruct Political Biases: Reflect on inherited beliefs and open up to broader perspectives.
  • Embrace Universal Love and Compassion: Focus on the core Christian principles that advocate love and compassion for all.

By unpacking these themes, we aim to inspire a new understanding of faith that not only guides personal growth but also fosters meaningful social change.

Embracing the Paradox: How Non-Dual Thinking in the LDS Community Can Transform Spiritual Experience

The Concept of Non-Dual Thinking

We will delve into the power of non-dual thinking within the Latter-day Saints community. Highlighted in the Living School curriculum, non-dual thinking challenges the dualistic mindset that often characterizes early spiritual development. This approach encourages embracing paradox and understanding the ineffable nature of spiritual experiences.

Jana’s Perspective on Embracing Paradox

Jana will emphasize the necessity of understanding both extremes to fully appreciate the beauty found in paradox. She will explain that the human mind struggles to comprehend these opposites simultaneously, requiring a shift from an “either/or” mindset to a “both/and” way of thinking for profound spiritual transformation.

Shifting to a Transformational Spirituality

By accepting and integrating both extremes, individuals will transcend a transactional approach to spirituality and move toward a more transformative religious experience. This shift isn’t about abandoning one’s faith but expanding it to allow for:

  • Personal Growth: Embrace new interpretations and perspectives that foster maturity.
  • Broader Understanding: Explore diverse viewpoints that enrich one’s relationship with faith.
  • Deeper Connection with the Divine: Build a stronger spiritual bond by appreciating the complexity and paradox of spiritual truths.

This journey will empower individuals to reshape their spirituality into something richer and more fulfilling, ultimately fostering a deeper connection with the divine and a more expansive religious life.

From Purity to Profanity and Beyond: Recontextualizing the Sacred in Modern Mormonism

Shifting Boundaries in Spirituality

In the evolving landscape of modern Mormonism, discussions about what is considered sacred will continue to change. Previously, clear lines were drawn between purity and profanity. However, an increasing number of Latter-day Saints artists and thinkers are broadening these definitions to create a more inclusive and complex spirituality.

Recontextualizing the Sacred

This shift calls for recontextualizing what is sacred, recognizing holiness in areas of life once deemed profane. The change encourages a willingness to embrace the entire human experience as a pathway to divine insight.

Embracing New Perspectives

This new outlook will challenge long-held beliefs and traditions, creating space for a form of sacredness that is:

  • Resilient: Capable of withstanding diverse perspectives and cultural changes.
  • Empathetic: Rooted in understanding the struggles and triumphs of others.
  • Inclusive: Solidarity with humanity’s diverse voices ensures all experiences can lead to divine connection.

This transformation will help Latter-day Saints build a spirituality that is more deeply rooted in empathy, understanding, and inclusivity, allowing for a broader, more resilient sense of the sacred.

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